This is at the Parade that was put on for the Utah football team. It was so much fun to be a Ute fan this year. My sister in law has put some really fun and interesting stuff

about the team and all that happened this year on her blog.

My kids love going to the games. Russ and Andy take the boys over to the high school to kick the football around. It is fun to see to fat old men running around like they did when they played football. Until one falls flat on his face and I being so caring laugh my head off and my belly hurts. Collin wants to be a kicker when he grows up

I have been interested in making a change and doing something different in our home. I have been feeling completely out of control and even a little more crazy then normal. A thought came to me. I have friends who have been telling me about Parenting with Love and Logic. I just thought is was a bunch of crap and didn't do anything about it. Well It was time for me to find a way to work with Kaleb or else he would die a very slow and painful death. I like him to much to let that happen. I headed to the Sandy Library and checked out the book. Wow the difference it has made in the way I treat and act around my kids is wonderful.

So I am setting some goals for myself this year and so far I am doing pretty good. I have been wanting to eat better and save some money at the same time. Russ and I are really bad at money and I didn't want to cook dinner for my kids or Russell. It is hard when they wont eat anything. I hate the fight that comes with dinner every night. So to let you know how bad we had been we would eat out at least 5 times a week and maybe more. It got worse after we sold the house and freed up even more money. I still don't know how much I actually spent a month but I do know that with 5 of us eating just at Wendy's we would spend about $25.00 every time. But most of the time we would eat at like Applebee's. So I was putting a lot of money into our failing economy.

Russ and I did a class like 3 years ago called Financial Peace University. We have never done anything with the information that we got from this class. Until this year we figured it was time to do something different. We started looking over the information again and have been doing what he tells us to do. It is the most in control of our money we have ever been. It has been a very good change of pace for us. I like being able to do most of our stuff with cash and not on our card. I now know where every penny is going.

With the year of changes and wanting to do better with money and eating better I have found some fun food blogs. I really like this one http://crockpot365.blogspot.com/. I am working on getting my family off of gluten everything she makes is gluten free. But it doesn't have to be. I have also had my family on Soy milk for years now because cow's milk is the cause of so many problems. I know I am on the kind of weird side of things. I also came across this South Beach Diet site and I have made some really fun and interesting items Kalyn's Kitchen. Now that I have some fun ideas for food I need to get off my bum. I am looking for some good ideas for working out and maybe even someone to do it with.

It has been a while. I have been having some big downs the last month or so. I think my body was telling me that I needed to stop and smell my very soft pillows. With all the crazy stuff going on with selling the house and Kaleb's broken elbow. I also did some Charity work with The Great Life Foundation called Living Christmas. It is like a sub for Santa. I got to purchase gifts for 7 different families (36 people). I then staffed a Part 1 training at The Great Life one of my favorite places to be but it takes up a lot of time to staff 4 full days. My point is I was very busy and so my body shut down and I ended up with walking pneumonia. So I have done nothing for the last month just letting my body recover. I have some fun pictures that some day I will add.

Glad to be done! Will never do again.

Russ wanted a fixer upper home. He got one! Here are some before and after pictures. I am not sure it does the work we did justice but it at least gives you an idea of what we went through.

I was talking to my friend today and he said that we did our own version of This Old House. I have many many more pictures. I just wanted to show the rooms that had the most dramatic change.

House!

So I haven't posted anything for the last little while because life got crazy fast. We sold the house in 3 weeks of putting it on the market. A Big thank you to the hard work of Leslie Thorup our Aunt and agent. The big thing was we had two weeks to move out and still a lot of work to do on the house. We didn't get much sleep and needless to say the kids didn't like us very much. Every time the kids talked to me I would snap and send them outside to play. I was a LITTLE stressed during that time frame. Russ and I would start our days at 8 am by dragging the boys out of bed to get them to school before 8:35. Russ went to work all day and would get home about 6. I still really don't know what I did all day but I was beat by the time Russ got home. I would have sent the kids out to play like as soon as Collin walked in the door at 3:30. Russ would start working on the house and pray to God that someone would show up to help him. Most the time Reid (father in law) would show up at like 8 and stay until 10 or 11. Thank you again Reid for all your help. As well as Levi, Scott, Derek and Andy. Russ and I would stay up until we dropped. That was about 1 am for me and 4 am for Russ. It was a very long two weeks.

I finally found us a place to move into on Wed and we moved in on Saturday the 25th of Oct. We are living in a beautiful basement apartment in Sandy. It is about 1,500 sq ft. We have 3 bedrooms and a great land lord. We love our new place we are right across the street from a really big park and the boys have found a new love for tennis. (Russ won state in tennis doubles when he was 17. So he likes the boys new love.) It is weird to be in an area with money. The ward is like 10 X's the size of our old ward so we like the idea of getting lost for a while.

Don't feel to sorry for the kids just yet. I told them that after the house sold we would take them on a vacation. So when Christina and Seth asked us to fly out to Cali for a week and do Disneyland we jumped on a plane. Well we waited a couple of weeks and had some interesting stuff happen before we left.

We love Utah football in fact we have had season tickets for the last 8 years. So it was no surprise that I got us a baby sitter to watch the kids for the Thursday night TCU Utah game. I asked my 14 year old baby sitter to come over for about 3 hours before Cassadee showed up to take over. This game she also had Danny and Sammy for about an hour before Cass would get there to take over. At 5 pm I get a phone call from Amber saying that she thought Kaleb had broke his arm. Now as mean as this may sound I was not going to leave the game unless I knew for sure his arm was broken. They wont let you back in after you have already showed up for the game. So I called Cass and asked her to take Kaleb to Alta View kids care. She was on her way. Andy got a hold of Christina and she came over. I called my mom and asked her to go help Cass and I had Amber's mom come pick her up. Cass and Christina took him to the Dr and Adam
(Cass boyfriend) stayed with the kids. The game started at 6 pm. My mom got to Alta View about 7:30 and called to tell me Kaleb's elbow was broken and Alta was sending Kaleb to Primary children's Hospital. Well I was about 2 blocks away from Primary. My mom called my at about 9:30 pm to say they were almost to the Hospital and to meet her there. At this point I was already waiting for the tracks train to pick me up. The was over and some how Utah pulled the game out thin air and won. So I was very glad I stayed for two reasons. If I would have left I would have just had to turn around and come right back.

The Dr came in and checked on Kaleb. They got to take more X-rays because the ones from Alta View didn't come through right. At about midnight they finally gave him drugs for the first time all night. The bone Dr thought it would be best to try and set his arm first before they did surgery. If you are a parent with a kid that needs to have any bones set leave the room. I stayed and just about past out on his bed. Elbows are not supposed to move like that and the popping sounds just made me want to throw up. The Dr laughed at me and said it was a good thing I caught myself because most the time the parent hits the floor before anyone else knows what is going on. The Dr got his arm set and Kaleb didn't need surgery. He now has a green cast and loves the attention that people give him. He holds it up to someone and says ouch and they always say what did you do. Kaleb says "Danny pushed my off the top bunk." he leave out that he stole Danny's UT ball and tried to hide on the top bunk.

So in the one moment I have to sit down let me tell you what has been going on. So Russ and I put our house up for sale. We did this about 1 month ago. The next day Russ was asked to be the Elders Quorum President. He told them that we were selling the house and the stake president wished us well and sent us on our way. What luck do we have. So Russ and I have been working on the house fixing it up while waiting for someone to buy the house. Well it paid off we sold the house with in 3 weeks of having it on the market. The very first people to look at our house came back and bought it. The day they came back to look at the house I had been in training at Great Life for 3 days so the house was not in very good shape. I have 3 kids running around trashing the house a baby sitter who didn't know that I had people coming over. Russ was trying to find a way home without a car so he was late. The family showed up to see the house. I hadn't done dishes for 2 days and clothes were all over the house. Russ finally got home and heard the agent talking to Kaleb. Well Kaleb was sitting on the potty pooping. The door wide open having an entire conversation with the agent. To add to the story Kaleb left the bathroom leaving the lid up and not flushing. The family must have really liked the house. They put in an offer the next morning on the 11Th of October. They want to close on the 25Th of this month. So we have been very stressed trying to find a place to move too. Russ has been working so hard to finish up the house. I can not wait to have this house behind us. I will post some before and after pictures to show you what we have done to the house.